Become a man
Masculinity is better. Why pretend otherwise? To be a demonstrably masculine man is a preferable state to any other. For a lot of gay men, that feels out of reach. They long for it, they lust for it, yes, but do they take it? These gay men are in need of a masculine transformation. A mascformation, if you will. Let me explain.
Gay men are in the unique and enviable position of both being a man and being attracted to men. Squandering, side-lining or abandoning that privilege is the worst choice you can make. Why does it make you so uncomfortable to claim the mantle of masculine? Even some very masculine gay men cringe at the term. This is running from your true self and your birth right. You fear masculinity.
Some of you might even hate it. But I doubt your honesty. Is your hate real, or is it really projection? An attempt to cover up your envy with a more palatable emotion? It’s possibly both, but if that’s true, you more than anyone need to learn to cast aside your aversion to masculinity. Embrace it. You’ll never look back.
For the genuinely feminine gay men, they can’t be transformed. Let them have their drag and drugs and catfights. But for the more typical gay man – the quiet, unassuming beta – there is a good chance you can mascform. To help you along your way, get an alpha. Or let an alpha get you. An alpha is a man who’s already gone through his own mascformation and can lead you through it, too.
So get to the gym, stand up tall, take up that sport, become a fireman, drink a beer, save a puppy, banter with your buds, and always fuck back. Whether with an alpha or flying solo, become the man you were born to be.
